彩色泡泡糖

imdb link: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1632708/

Director: Will Gluck

Writers: Keith Merryman, David A. Newman, Will Gluck, Harley Peyton.

Casts: Justin Timberlake, Mila Kunis

The story is kind of a "true love cliche" about 2 very close friends deciding to have sex relationship and meanwhile not fall in love with each other. The decision was proven wrong; they still had crush on each other, and after a series of mistakes the story reached a happy ending.

Recently there have been some movies talking about this FWB phenomenon, and another one of them is "No Strings Attached." I actually become very curious about whether this FWB thing really work. I mean, embraced by both male and female, and both sides find this healthy and absolutely right. After all, if someone completely matches you in bed, how come you wouldn't want to try out having a real relationship with him/her? Or, if you're not in the least attracted by this person, how do you convince yourself into getting naked in front of him/her, even kissing him/her?

Having sex with someone means sharing a kind of intimacy with that person, and in a way you become vulnerable, as you have to reveal your truest feelings and reactions (unless you decide to disguise yourself even at THAT moment). I believe that's why in the end, at least one of the FWB couple will not be able to accept such relationship.

However, I do agree that sometimes we just want to have all the fun of being in a relationship (the intimacy and sex) but not the responsibilities and burdens. Maybe that's why I haven't decided NEVER to have such FWB. Not for now, but in the future...who knows?